Thanks everyone! Sometimes you get the feeling that you are the only one that has gone thru this. We had 12 years of marriage plus 4 years of dating, I can't beleive it, almost half of our lives together. We had been separated for about 15 months, I wish I could get into deatils but I'd take all night posting. What truly puts me down is our kids, although I'm greatful that they are old enough to kind of understand as to why we had to part this way. I do see them every other weekend, vacation and holidays.
You know, my parents also divorced when I was 7 yo. I don't remember a whole lot, maybe thats why I didn't suffer as much. I knocked my head up against the wall so many times promising my self that I was never to become another statistic, but I gave up. Our divorce is even though, we both had our faults, no one is really to blame. Typical marital problems work, money, tired, etc. Everyone has them, so I thought this is normal, but it just gets to the point of feeling overwhelmed when all of them bombard you constantly.
Ok, I feel better now. One of the cool times about this matter was that I had to drive to San Bernardino from TJ quite a few times, a nice 4 hour drive on my FZ6. That 215 freeway is a blast to ride on. BTW. How am I supposed to introduce myself, single or divorced??
