FizzySix
Drunken Philosopher
but some things i just dont do.. brakes, tires, and major engine work is just not for me
Me too: I will happily work on anything that makes the bike (or van or truck or lawnmower or...) go, provided it doesn't take too much time/expertise. If I fail, the vehicle will fail to go for a little while. That's bad.
If it's really involved and inability on my part will make the vehicle not go for an extended period (e.g. head gasket replacement) that's really bad.
But if I work on something that makes the vehicle stop, and I don't do it correctly and the vehicle doesn't stop, I'm in serious trouble.
I say take on as much as you're comfortable with and then just a little bit more, and leave the rest to professionals who hopefully can/will educate you in the process.
That's my theory on all things home/car/etc. One of my major decision-making points in any professional service I choose is: will they take the time to make me a more informed consumer, or possibly DIY person? (this does not include exotic dancers )
But back to the OP: if you can drain and refill your coffee maker with fresh water, coffee, and filter each morning, you can change your oil!
As others have said, follow the filter manufacturer's instructions on installing the filter (hand-snug only). It takes some "hand sensitivity" to know how tight the drain plug needs to be, but you've screwed things on before - tight enough to crush the beer-can washer but not tight enough to strip the hole.