So in the States you aren't allowed to spend time with your children? Pretty medieval. What hours a week do you work? I do 37.5. In at 8.30 out at 5.
Yup, that about covers it. If you want to spend time with the family, you have to be in education, and even then, it really depends on the school district (and job). In my last district, teachers were contracted to work from 7AM-3PM, plus five days on each end of the school year. They are also in one of the higher paying districts in the state, with salaries starting around 29K. Granted, summers are off and you get all school vacations and stuff, but 29K is not enough to support a family (nor is it low enough to qualify for welfare if there's only 3 of you). The job I am going for (counselor) starts closer to $35K, up to $40K in some districts, (with master's degree, so extra student loans to pay off), but require longer hours, usually til about 4 or 5PM (starting at 7AM), and an undetermined number of days in the summer for scheduling and new student registrations.
Most companies require a 40 hour work week here, but many people work more than that in order to do their jobs. No overtime in most cases. Bad vacation, bad sick policies, etc.
Oh, and if you want to have a baby, guess you'd better start banking some $$. Gov requires that you be allowed up to 12 weeks leave, but it does not have to be paid, and you only get it if the company has over 50 employees and you have been there for over 12 months. Otherwise, you are SOL. Not to mention, you are only guaranteed A job when you get back, not necessarily YOUR job. So while they can't pay you less, they can give you more responsibility, worse hours, etc.
And men are allowed to use this leave too, but companies haven't caught up and are WAY harsher on men trying to take time off to support a family. Rob had to take Vacation time when we came home from the hospital because his company's FMLA kicked in for men AFTER one week of vacation, and then it was unpaid FMLA.
You guys in Europe don't know how good you have it.