That's awesome Wolfman! I know how nice it is for your lady to enjoy a ride too. It took my fiance about a year of SHORT rides in the neighborhood and a few tears before she began to enjoy it. I think the trick was her finding the guts to get over 20 mph, when it begins to stable out a little more.
Enjoy 2-up!
First of all, cheers for the nice words!
Having my lady being a decent and happy pillion is very important to me, as I like to tour, and I like to do so with the lady in my life!
It means that I can tour with loving company, as well as meaning I don't have to rely on mates on bikes being available to tour with me on another bike, if I want someone to share my experiences with...
I reckon that "training" your pillion is a very delicate process, involving patience, sensitivity to their needs, and a balance between making it fun, thrilling for both of you, without scaring them half to death while your at it!
As your pillion has little control over what happens while riding, they do have the ability to either compromise, or enhance the safety factor considerably...
It is the riders responsibilty to make sure that the pillion understands both the riders and their impact on a good safe ride!
The "trust" factor is a massive issue! If your pillion does not trust the rider, they will tense up, and become a liability in terms of safety, and the riders ability to ride smoothly and safely!
Once you have your pillions trust, the ability to ride harder, and more like you do when riding by yourself, is far greater..
Also I reckon it's important to have the right bike...the FZ6 is well suited to 2 up riding to start with, with a decent seat to peg relationship for pillion comfort, decent grab rails, and a comfortable upright seating position, which puts the pillion more "in" the bike, rather than perched up high, and "out the back" like a lot of sports bikes..
It also helps to have suspension the can be adjusted to suit 2up riding...what is good for solo riding, can be bloody awful for 2up riding...especially if you like to push the bike a little whilst riding 2up!
But at the end of the day...no matter what, riding 2up is just behind going for a decent solo sports ride for enjoyment in my books!