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Why is it , When a woman flirts with a guy its harmless fun , yet if we do it we are trying to get into her pants ??????
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Also , Why is it that all my female friends "must" have been my girlfriend at some stage ????
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I,m starting to sense something here Daniel ,lol
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Perhaps its because you are a great guy and they don't want to completely lose you from their life even if it doesn't work out?!
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jdesiano1
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I am going to get so bashed for this but I absolutley believe 100% that in a guy/girl friendship one of them has wanted the other at some point. There is always some kinda attraction there on one side or the other. Girls can say all day this is not true but they are only speaking for themselves not the guy.
As far as the do these pants...issue, we know how we look, we wanna see if you are gonna tell the truth and I personally will not ask these questions unless I want to hear the truth. Sometimes I am not feeling it and I say babe does this look ok and he will tell me the TRUTH. However if I feel I am having a crappy day (looks wise) there isnt a damn thing he can say to make me change my mind.
And truth be told I as a female am after looks just as much as the next GUY. I just have enough self-confidence to watch myself and not be ran over. I believe if you lay there and are a doormat you will get walked on. Yes I can absolutely love a guy for his humor wit charm etc etc but if the physical chemistry isn't there (and you almost know imediately) for get it.
Now, therein lies the rub. WE don't know what's swirling around in the girls mind -- is she "just askin'", is she testing us, is she in a good or bad mood. Ugh. You may as well whip out a gun and point it at my head when you ask this. It's that uncomfortable...just stop.
And I agree with the notion of just being one's self -- like boo said, if you don't love yourself, you've got no business dragging someone else into a relationship.
This is gettin' all Oprah and stuff. I gotta go find something manly to do.
Great thread by the way.
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clockworkjon
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They never start out that way. They always start out care free and loving and understanding and independent. Then comes the ring. Now you have to submit a detailed itinerary of where you're going, with who, to do what, for how long, and EXACTLY when you're coming back. In between you have to call when you get where you're going, call before you come home, and also check in every 12 minutes in between. If you're someplace loud and you can't hear her, its your fault for letting all that noise happen. If you're late (for any reason, medical emergencies not excluded) you're irresponsible and lied about when you're coming home. Then once you finally get home, listen to everything you've done wrong, apologize for being the worst husband in the world, its time to rub her feet while you watch The Millionaire Matchmaker reunion for 3 hours.
Believe it or not, I really do still love my wife though. Figure that out! :thumbup:
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