There is a saying in motorcycling that I have heard more times than I can count "It's not if you will go down, it's when", some of us do it more than once.
When I first started riding a few years back I dropped the bike at zero MPH at a stop sign that was on a hill. Hill was steeper than I thought and my downhill foot didn't find pavement so the bike and I both fell, I managed to hop clear but the bike had a few scratched.
My second fall was just last month. I went down at about 40M MPH (when I met the pavement). I slid under the back of an F150, and the trailer hitch of the truck put a small hole in the frame of the bike, which left her a total loss. I walked away with some deep tissue bruising on my ankle and a sprained wrist, but I also live by the motto ATGATT (in case you haven't heard it 1 million times on here yet, "All The Gear, All The Time").
It sucks, but it is part of riding. You just have to pick yourself up, dust yourself off and get back on the horse and keep practicing.
If the gloves don't work for you, find some that do. I have three pairs right now, and I am looking to replace one of them. Gloves come in alot of different styles, and not all feel the bars equally well. The best gloves I have ever used for feeling the bike at Icon Twenty-niner gloves(very thin goatskin palms, mmmm) but they don't offer alot of protection. I typically ride with AGV Sport Dragon gloves (full cowhide with carbon fiber knuckles and finger gaurds) but they don't offer as much of a feel of the bike and they don't breath well enough for the hottest days.
Moral of the story is, that one pair of gloves isn't your only option in the world. Check out a local shop, read reviews online and find some that really will work for you.