No you certainly dont look like a dude! Maybe ladies should have a different color name? On some of my other forums, ladies have a purple or red colored name to differentiate themselves. It could be an option in case people wanted to keep their gender a secret. Just a suggestion, as I can see how being called a dude would be frustrating time and time again.
Would love to have my name in purple lol Although I think with the ponytails in my avatar most people can figure it out without the color-coding
So'I should change my number from 40 to 94? That hoovers!