Ant,
I live in Arlington, just across the road from the Iwo Jima memorial and Arlington Cemetery in my pic - I was going to PM you my email but I dont know how.
This area has hotels everywhere, I suggest avoiding the hotels in DC, unless your budget allows you to stay at the Ritz. Plus they all charge extra cash for parking . My first choice would be to stay in Arlington, in the Pentagon City/Crystal City/Rosslyn neighborhoods. That gives you easy access to public transportation, safe neighborhoods for you and the FZ, and a quick and easy ride into the best part of the city. Alexandria is also a good choice, as long as you stay inside the beltway, and Bethesda, MD is nice, but expensive.
It's less expensive to stay far out, but dont choose the cheap hotels in the eastern part of DC or the close in Maryland suburbs of Prince Georges County. If you dont mind a 30 minute ride in, you might consider Bowie, or even Annapolis, which is a nice place to visit on it's own.
If you go into the city early Sunday morning, you can pretty much stop in the street in front of the memorials, like the Lincoln, the WWII, Jefferson, etc. But once the people get going, there will be too much traffic, though I've pulled mine up on the curb and got away with it for a few minutes.
feel free to shoot me an email if you have specific questions, I cant get you in the Pentagon or FBI, but I can give info for places with the best beer and a great overlook of the city where even a red FZ6 can look good.
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