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Dave.TX
Already touched on with if it was a bicycle or car or whatever. Life has inherent risks. People die without leaving their homes. Even if you stop riding you will still be exposed to life's risks elsewhere. Planes crash, trains crash, cars crash... there are just things you can't avoid.
I also agree your dad is feeling guilty and greatly admire your respect for his feelings. I was going to tell my folks in December (while visiting) that I got a motorcycle. During my visit he gets a phone call from a friend that says he's in the hospital. Found out he fell on his Harley, hit his head (which knocked him unconscious) and broke his arm. I'm pretty sure he wasn't wearing a helmet and he was in his work clothes with no protective gear. My dad ranted on how just the prior week he had been telling his bud to stop riding and sell the bike. Needless to say I didn't tell them I bought a bike, that would've caused Mt. St. Helens all over again.
Kudos on waiting and letting your dad go through the emotional roller coaster he's on without adding more stress until he mellows out.
I also agree your dad is feeling guilty and greatly admire your respect for his feelings. I was going to tell my folks in December (while visiting) that I got a motorcycle. During my visit he gets a phone call from a friend that says he's in the hospital. Found out he fell on his Harley, hit his head (which knocked him unconscious) and broke his arm. I'm pretty sure he wasn't wearing a helmet and he was in his work clothes with no protective gear. My dad ranted on how just the prior week he had been telling his bud to stop riding and sell the bike. Needless to say I didn't tell them I bought a bike, that would've caused Mt. St. Helens all over again.
Kudos on waiting and letting your dad go through the emotional roller coaster he's on without adding more stress until he mellows out.