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Saw a man die this morning. RIP.

I'm kinda shaken up here at work, but way more importantly, I feel a very deep sorrow for this guy's family. For you EMTs, fireman, police officers, doctors and trauma nurses (and military), I don't know how you do it every day.

RIP, sir.

You should take solace in knowing you did the right thing and did all that you could do to save this guy. Don't convince yourself that there was anything else you could have done because it sounds like you did it all the way it should be done.

I see this stuff all day in my hospital. It does bother you are first and I remember my first patient who died... but you unfortunately and fortunately get de-sensitized to it with time. Now I don't think twice about a patient dying if I know I did everything I could to save him/her. If it were something I did wrong (god forbid), I'm sure I would lose a ton of sleep over it, but that thankfully has not happened yet.
 
Thought I'd follow up on this... I sent a card to the man's wife expressing my condolences and to tell them that it did not appear that he experienced any suffering in the ordeal. The day after I mailed it I received a call from his daughter to thank me for letting them know. They were extremely grateful as their fear was that he was suffering at the end. Yesterday I received an amazing thank you card from his wife (she was too shaken to talk last week). It started: "There are no words to express our appreciation for the card that you sent to us. Your note confirmed our hope that he didn't suffer." As it turns out, the autopsy showed that he had congestive heart failure and that was what caused the accident. All indication is that he really was an exceptional person and was loved tremendously by his family and friends.
 
Wow, Should make you feel even better for stopping! Nothing really more important than being able to give family some closure.
 
Passing this along to you all and hopefully it will adjust your seat belt wearing tendencies if you're not always buckled in. I was commuting to work (in my car - I woke up late, it was cold, and I didn't have time to bundle up) on a 4 lane - 2 lanes each way - road, Route 9 for those in the Boston area. A car 3 in front of me started to act erratically, first slowing way down, then cutting off the car in the lane to the right, then gunning it. He lost control and hit the guardrail on the right and pinballed back and hit the center guardrail head-on.

The cars in front of me slowed but kept going. When I reached the car there was no movement inside and I pulled over to see if I could help. When I got around to the other side of the car I saw that the driver's head was outside the passenger window, face down, and bleeding down the door. Not wanting to move him, I immediately started flagging all the cars coming by to roll down their windows and ask if they were doctors or nurses.

30 seconds later an off duty fireman ran up and had me and a couple other guys try to stabilize his back and neck - basically holding him up while opening the door, as the fireman was afraid that the door was blocking his airway. I was in charge of holding his chin and opening the door while the other guys held his shoulders (he was a big guy in his 60s). Finally the EMTs arrived and took over. I gave my recollection of the incident to a cop and was told that I could go. An hour later the police officer called my to get some more details and told me that the man had passed away.

He also said it was totally preventable if he was wearing his seat belt.

That said, my first reaction was that the way the car was acting before the accident was that the driver was having a heart attack or seizure, I don't know. He was breathing while we were first there, but did let out one of those deep exhales just before the EMTs arrived and didn't seem to be breathing afterwards.

I'm kinda shaken up here at work, but way more importantly, I feel a very deep sorrow for this guy's family. For you EMTs, fireman, police officers, doctors and trauma nurses (and military), I don't know how you do it every day.

RIP, sir.
Your a brave bloke Tom,
To many people pass up an opportunity to help. My hat goes off to you. You did your best in a very tricky situation. Bless ya.

Rest in peace unknown driver.

Nelly
 
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