There are other threads on seats with differing comments.
I also did the same as you, and found about the same. The Gel seat was not a significant improvement. In fact, the Gel seat pushes me forward more which I don't like as it crunches my nads. I need a flatter seat.
I'm sure it depends a lot on the type pf riding you do for what type of seat individuals prefer.
Spending more that $200 for a seat is not an option for me. So I think I'm going to try some hand sculpting.