actually i do very much value my g/f's life. i don't know if you don't understand where im talking about putting the helmet, or maybe you're just ignorant, but if your helmet hits something that you or your bike didn't hit then thats to close of a call anyway. Aside from it not being able to hit something that your leg doesn't hit, there is no abuse to the helmet whatsoever. As far as what i wear when i ride, i wear riding pants, jacket, helmet, and gloves so unless you're a squid and you were talking about what you wear, then i suggest you don't make an assumption about what a fellow rider that knows about safety wears.